My opinion on who is a daddy is the man who is in a childs life. It doesn't have to be blood. If a man or boy was to engage in a relationship, knowing the child/baby was already a part of the mother....then they take on the responsibility of that child. In todays time, all these teenagers are having babies before marriage and causes these split homes. My grandaughter is one of these children. Sadly the parents are not togeather but I do my part by spending as much time with her as the mother allows, I provide her with what she needs while in my home. I would never let her do without but its also not my place to pay child support. Mothers today qualify for all kinds of help. I will/have bought plenty of diapers & wipes. I guess what is getting to me is that some people like to judge others to quickly. Some want to talk smack about its wrong for someone to raise another mans child. That to me is childish. That statement was made and just sorta put a bad taste in my mouth...to me its saying that all you single mothers out there need to stay single till your child is 18 years old.....I understand that some people in this world did everything the corrrect way...married then children and was blessed to have the strong foundation to stay married. Thats awsome and more power to you but those people need to take a step back and support what is already in place. These children are inocent. If these baby's mommas new boyfriends don't like the idea of taking care of another mans child...they need to not date them....even more so those boyfriends family need to keep their mouth shut and stop talking smack.
Back to the title of my post...Who is Your Daddy? I can start with me....my mother married my father when I was 2 years old....He is my daddy, he was not my blood father but he is my daddy. He has and still is always there for me....Then when they divorced and remarried.....I became blessed to have my father and my step father....Those are real men to me...they took on a child that was not their blood but loved like they were. Thats a real father.....
Then I will move to my husband, he entered into a relationship with me, taking on both of my children. He is there father. He is a man. I'm thankful to have him step up to the plate. For my children, he is the only father they have.
Families today consist of maybe mom and dad, and/or step parents, some children are even raised by the granparents or aunts and uncles.....there is nothing wrong with who your caregivers are.....I have always heard it takes a village to raise a child.
but either way I am probally opening up a can of worms but at the same time I just had to let this off my chest.....It hurts that people want to judge before knowing all the facts....that people want to talk smack like they can do better when they have never been in those shoes they talking about..
its just my opinion and i know everyone is titled to have one.
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